Complaining about a third party consists of:
  • Venting, revenge, frustration, getting even.
  • Feeding biased opinions to the innocent.
  • Speaking ill of and tarnishing one’s reputation.
That is slander.

Slander is tearing down a person, not lifting them up.
Slander defames and destroys a person’s character.
Slander is cruelty.

Tips: Refrain from slandering others.
Pray, write in a journal, seek out a therapist.
Keep frustrations private.

Those who slander cannot be trusted.

z. 1710


You Can Heal Your Life

Physical / Emotional / Mental

Your repetitive thoughts and beliefs about yourself and others can enhance or destroy your life. You choose.

Be honest to yourself with what ails you. You work and pray from the inside-out to heal yourself. And you seek professionals to help from the outside-in.

Remember the good.
Forgive and forget the hurt. Learn the lesson. Live with awe and gratitude.


Probable Cause

Acne Not accepting self
Aids Hopeless, nobody cares, sexual guilt
Alcoholism Guilt, Self-rejection
Alzheimer's Dis-ease Hopeless, Helpless, Anger.
Refusal to see the world as it is.
Anxiety Not trusting flow of life
Arthritis Feeling unloved, critical
Baldness Tension, Fear, Lack Trust
Blood Joy in life, flow freely
Breath Ability to take in life
Cancer Deep hurt, Deep secret or grief
Depression Anger you feel unjustified to have
Eyes Future looks dim
Frigidity Denial of pleasure, Oversensitive
Growths Building resentments
Heart Problems Longstanding emotional problems.
Lack of joy. Hardening of the heart.
Belief in strain and stress.
Impotence Pressure, tension, guilt
Indigestion Gut level dread
Injuries Anger at self. Feeling guilty.
Insanity Fleeing from the family. Escape
Itching Unsatisfied, remorse
Jaw Problems Resentment, desire for revenge
Kidney Problems Disappointment. Shame
Lung Problems Depression, grief. Fear of taking in life.
Nervousness Anxiety, rushing, struggle
Osteoporosis Feeling no support left in life
Overweight Fear, need for protection.
Running away from feelings.
Seeking fulfillment.
Parkinson's Fear and intense desire
to control everyone and verything
Phlebitis (imflammation of a vein) Anger and frustration. Blaming others.
Respiratory Fear of taking in life fully
Round shoulders Burdened of life. Hopeless
Snoring Refusing to let go of old patterns
Stomach Dread, unable to take in the new
Stroke Giving up. Rejecting life
Throat Channel of creativity
        More - New Thought Patterns       z. 1708

Unsolicited Advice

Someone offers unsolicited advice,
then gets offended when it is unwanted.

Unsolicited advice is almost always unwanted.

Let others THINK
                 FEEL and
                 EXPERIENCE life for themselves,
                 their own way.

z. 1704 

That is Enough

How to politely end an uncomfortable encounter:

John -          What did you mean by that?
                    I want to know your opinions.
                    You are the President of the United States.

Trump -       THAT is enough.
                    We are done.
                    Thank you very much.

Trump's Body Language

                    Breaks eye contact.
                    Turns and walks away.
                    Goes sit down at desk.
                    Ready to get back to work.

z. 1705

ref: Trump’s first 100 days in office as USA President,
interview with John Dickerson, oval office, Face the Nation, CBS News

Do not Admire or Worship Anyone

If they do not consider you to be SPECIAL,
Then why consider them SPECIAL?

Who is the celebrity?
Is this a one-way road?
Is it always about THEM, their history?
Is their ego so narcissistic?

Why are they not CURIOUS
about YOU, your history, interests and activities?

Quiet people: Stop interviewing.
Start volunteering information, stories and ice breakers.

Every one loves a good listener.

Talkative people:  Aim to LISTEN
half the time as well as TALKING.
Balance out the relationship.
Be considerate. Be curious.

Do not worship people. 
Worship only God. - 2 Kings 17:35, Rev 22:9

z. 1703